ANNOUNCEMENT

MEALS:

Access to food and balanced nutrition if it is desired during your visit is one of my key values. Bring your own, or donate to my hospitality pantry.  All people eat, and here you are treated like a human being.

BEVERAGE:

Take comfort in water or something a little more. Bring your own, or donate to my hospitality pantry. All people must hydrate, and here you are treated like a human being.

SHOWER:

Cleanliness of the body is an extension of both physical and mental well-being. It's essential for hygiene, removing dirt, sweat, and germs, which helps prevent skin problems and body odor. Beyond hygiene, showering can also improve circulation, soothe muscles and joints, and promote better sleep and mood. Bring your own supplies, or donate to my hospitality pantry.

GREENERY:

Cannabis may be utilized in this space for wellness purposes to manage stress, anxiety, and improve quality of life. Bring your own or donate to my hospitality pantry.

NO CIGARETTES  ALLOWED | NO ILLEGAL SUBSTANCES ALLOWED

PEACE:

My lounge area is designed to manifest and experience a vibe. Equipped with air conditioning, comfort seating, Bluetooth speaker, custom lighting, and power outlets for device charging. 

MUSIC:

I have been the soundtrack to many moments in peoples lives and I look forward to continuing. I have a sense of pride, dignity, and respect for the identities of my audience to ensure you are cherished with the best vibes possible.  

CREATE:

I'm an artist, DJ, activist, and videographer that has created everything from documentaries to music videos, adult content and more. Human beings from many walks of life have made it their prerogative to work and collaborate with me.  

WELLNESS:

Another key component of my values is mindfulness and creating a brave space to acknowledge the taboos surrounding the different types of wellness needs. Here you are treated like a human being. I uphold a standard of trust and maturity. You may also donate to my wellness closet. 

GUEST HOSTING:

Hotels are pricey car fun may not be comfortable or private. Contact me on Instagram to negotiate

NO GROUPS JUST YOU AND YOUR ONE GUEST

I.D. REQUIRED

BOTH OF YOU MUST CONTACT ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA TO CONFIRM

1 HOUR MAXIMUM

CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELF WITH RESPECT FOR MY ACTIVISM AND SUPPORT FOR MY COMMUNITY

BRO CODE and PRIVATE EVENTS:

What happens between Bros stays between Bros.

Bros are not expected to agree on everything, but Bros will respect each other.

Bros understand that this space is cisgender.

If Bro doesn't know what cisgender means then Bro should go research that.

Bros gather here to support each other.

Bros do not gather here in hate for other identities.  

All communities at some point must build, sustain, and support their own. When other identities seek unwarranted information or try to invade Bros space, peacefully explain that we had a specific need, so we worked and organized. 

Ask that person what their needs are. What support is needed to reach their goals? Who does their goals serve? For what purpose and who's benefit? It's quite possible that you may have a way to assist or know someone who can. 

You could offer that person advice, a contact, resource, or avenues on how they can achieve for themselves what Bros have achieved.

If this person is not looking for solutions they may just want someone to talk to as a means to vent. Ask for clarity about what their mission is. 

You can then decide if your own mental health has the capacity to take on their venting and distress.

If the person tries to weaponize their weakness, weaponize their incompetence, or becomes disrespectful, politely exit the conversation with the understanding that you tried to be an ally. 

This person may perceive you through a negative lens or feel that all Bros are against them. Calmly refrain from Oppression Olympics or weaponized victimization. This person is not centered on building community, they are centered on identifying as the most marginalized. Don't do that persons work or organizing for them. You already offered your support through a framework of ally-ship. Let that person sort through their internal battles on their own. 

Bros have specific needs. We hold ourselves accountable to work, organize, and build. The whole world is not against us and there have been some amazing allies along the way.

Bros practice what Bros preach. When we support other identities, we do so in a way that serves the purpose of their space.

We take the high road and we do not invade the safe spaces of others, even if others never respect ours.

If it's Women's Gaming night do I serve purpose by being there? Of course not. I can support by supplying a game console. 

If it's Trans Attracted night do I serve purpose by being there? Of course not. I can support by sponsoring or advertising the event. 

If it's Elders night do I serve purpose by being there? Of course not. I can support by providing a requested service - DJ'ing, Handicapped Assistance, Cleanup, Car Rides. 

There are many ways to serve and support without disrupting purpose.

If someone claims to be an ally then they should understand that invading our space doesn't serve our purpose. People from many walks of life can practice ally-ship by donating supplies, sponsoring, or providing a service that we have requested. This is called Diversity and Inclusion, and it is being practiced through how we receive purposeful support.  

A real ally supports us in the ways that we need to be served, not in the ways they assume they should support us. That person is not serving us or our purpose, they are serving themselves under the guise of ally-ship.

Bros don't condone violence, but we do hold each other accountable and smack fellow Bros upside the head when Bros aren't following the Bro Code LOL. 

FOR EXAMPLE: Bros tend to rough house. We have our own ways of life. There should be no complaints from other identities about Bros rough housing too much...  because once again, this space is for Bros. 

ABOUT MY PERSONAL EXPERTISE:

If the the connection between us is mutual I offer Beginner, Intermediate, and Advanced interactions. If you are new or inexperienced I can adjust to your level. Most toys are soft fabric, silicone, or padded for comfort. 

There have been imposters who give practitioners a bad reputation. Many individuals are still processing their own mental health and insecurities which puts an extra weight on everyone. I want to be a good example and keep my interactions as healthy as possible.

Wellness is a major part of the experience I offer, but my space is not a replacement for therapy. If I sense you’re a Bottom who is hyper sexual, compulsive, sexually frustrated, desperate, or being too thirsty then you will not be trusted. 

As a Top I must  center our peace of mind in knowing that I am fully aware and responsive during our interaction. 

It is human decency to talk prior to your arrival and develop a state of mental and emotional calmness once your session begins, free from worry, anxiety, and stress. I exercise this through various practices like meditation, mindfulness, or simply by taking steps to address and manage stressors in one's life.  How the release of your stressors and lived experiences manifest during the session stays between us. 

I'm about tranquility and contentment, often associated with feeling trustworthy, secure, and safe. 

EDUCATION:

I own a Pillory, not a Stock. A Stock is for your feet and ankles. A Pillory is for your neck and wrist areas. WARNING: Below is an X-RATED depiction of a Pillory.